Love doesn’t erase the past

Friday, 5:27 p.m., Victoria Island.

Adaora slipped off her heels before she even reached the elevator. Partners were still buried in contracts and closing calls, but she—a star litigator every other evening—was now a woman on a mission. Their chef had flown to Enugu that morning to see his ailing father; tonight’s egusi soup and pounded yam were hers to conjure. Chidi loved home‑cooked food, and Adaora loved the look on his face when he tasted it.

She cut through traffic like a late‑season harmattan wind—hot, hurried, unpredictable. Near Falomo Bridge, a keke swerved, and Adaora jerked the wheel. Tyres screeched. An electric pole loomed so close she could read the sun‑bleached “IN CASE OF EMERGENCY” sticker.

Chicken.
Eleven years old.
The freezer.
A slap so sharp it rang in her ears long after her mother stomped away.

“You want me to come back from work and start cooking frozen meat?
So I should now defrost chicken with my eyeballs? — Useless child!”

“I’m so sorry, mummy”, she said with tears in her eyes.

They’d had everything—marble floors, private schools, imported cereal—but no softness. Wealth muffled apologies; it did not manufacture them. Her father worked late nights to keep the splendor polished. Her mother worked late, too—then demanded perfection from the tiny girl who stood guard over thawing poultry.

Adaora blinked back to the present. The pole was behind her; the memory wasn’t.


Marriage, she once believed, would be another arena for judgment. Instead, Chidi’s parents opened their arms as though she’d been carved from their own rib.

Gentle smiles, warm hands, you belong here.

Her father‑in‑law ended every phone call—every call—with “I love you.” The first time, Adaora stared at the screen, stunned.
“Does he say that all the time?” she asked.
“Yes,” Chidi chuckled, “and he means it.”

Her mother‑in‑law said less but showed more: laundry folded just so, vegetable soup kept hot on a back burner, questions that lingered until Adaora gave the real answer.
One exhausting week, Mama slipped a teacup into Adaora’s trembling hands.
“You’re doing so well,” she said. “It’s beautiful to watch you be a mother.”

Adaora had wept in the guest bathroom, muffling sobs in a guest towel that smelled of lavender.


A week later, the whole family gathered for Sunday lunch. The house hummed with laughter, the kind Adaora still handled like delicate china.

Her five‑year‑old daughter, Nkem, chased a plastic airplane around the dining table. One bad turn and a tall wine glass toppled—
CRACK!
—splintering across the terrazzo floor.

Adaora’s lungs froze. Muscles coiled. She tasted the metallic fear of thirteen: charred jollof rice, a slippery bowl, her mother’s feet pounding her stomach, while she braced herself in pain on the floor.

“That dish was expensive!”

She opened her mouth—ready to scold, to seize the small wrist the way hers had been seized—

But Mama was faster.

“Are you okay, sweetheart?” The older woman crouched, inspecting tiny feet for cuts. “No blood. Good girl. Let’s wear shoes next time when glass is around.” She kissed Nkem’s forehead, then rose, broom in hand, sweeping calm back into the room.

No anger.
No shouting.
Just love.

Adaora’s shoulders sagged, an armour finally set down. Mama crossed the space between them and clasped her shaking hands.

“It’s just a glass,” she whispered. “Children are more important.”

Tears spilled—silent, grateful, unstoppable.


That evening, Lagos rain pattered against the bedroom window. Adaora lay curled beside Chidi, fingers tracing the steady rhythm of his breath.

“Your parents are teaching me how to be loved,” she murmured. “I didn’t grow up knowing that.”

Chidi pressed a kiss to her forehead, gathering her close. “Now you do.”

Outside, thunder rumbled like distant applause. Inside, two heartbeats settled into the safest silence Adaora had ever known.


Love doesn’t erase the past.
But it can build something stronger in its place.

Always remember that God is love (1 John 4:8).

My Canadian Dream

Five months ago I moved to Canada from Nigeria hoping to live my Canadian dream. My friend moved here about 3 years ago and constantly told me about how amazing it is to be here. So I decided to come over. It wasn’t until I got here that I realized that he was still struggling to make enough to support his wife and kids. He has been working as a Laboratory Technician even though he has a Ph.D. in Chemistry. Regardless, I decided to stay here hoping that things would come together for me quickly as I am a single man and thus have more free time to hustle.

5 months down and I’m still struggling. Anyway, I went to a career session last week and they gave some interview tips and emphasized dressing for success. I took their advice. So later that day I went to Hudson’s Bay to pick up some new clothes and shoes. I got a few ties as well. I was paying at the register when the store associate asked me what I was shopping for. I told him that I wanted new work attire. He then suggested that I get a new and trendy laptop bag called Yetu. I initially hesitated but he persisted and convinced me to buy it by saying that it would make me look more professional at interviews. So I bought it even though it cost $500. I mean I have to put in my best to get a good job right? Oh well, I got home and put my laptop in my new laptop bag and it fit right. I was glad I didn’t have to go all the way back to return it.

The following day I woke up, went for a run, had breakfast, and settled into my usual routine of applying for numerous jobs. I’ve been applying for jobs all around Canada and not just in Toronto, where I live. Excitement filled my veins, later that afternoon, when I saw an email regarding an interview in Vancouver. First I responded to the email with a yes and my availability for an interview. Then I proceeded to look up common interview questions to start preparing with.

The following week, I packed my bags and headed out. I couldn’t stop reciting my rehearsed response to the “Tell me about yourself” interview question that I saw everywhere on the internet on my bus to the airport. I kept making mistakes so I decided to stop and give my brain a rest. Just as I stopped my recitals, the bus stopped at my terminal and I got off with my laptop bag and carry-on luggage. This was the first time I traveled light by the way. It was a 3-day trip though. So I forced myself to leave all the things I know I wouldn’t use at home.

I went straight to the security section as I had checked-in at home. I noticed someone in front of me with the same laptop bag and I got excited. For once I had a trendy item. I thought about how I would tell this to my friends who always teased me about lagging. Then it was my turn to get all my items in the bins. I placed in all my items including my jacket and shoes. Getting through was pretty quick except that I was pulled aside for further screening, which I am already used as it happens quite often. But at least I didn’t feel molested this time. With only a few more minutes to the boarding time, I picked up my bags and headed to my gate. I got to the gate only about 5 minutes later and noticed that they were boarding early. Feeling nervous and anxious, I brought out my passport and opened up my apple wallet to show my boarding pass to the attendant. As I handed them over I got a whiff of the nastiest fart ever. “Omg, I hope that didn’t slip out of me”, I thought. And then I remembered that we’re all human and decided to not worry about that.

I slept all through the flight as it was quite smooth. I needed it. Once I arrived at the Vancouver airport, it only took about 45 minutes to get to my hotel.

The next day I woke up and decided to review my interview prep notes before getting ready. I pulled out my laptop bag from the closet, placed it on the bed then opened it up. I screamed so loudly after opening it as I realized it wasn’t mine. Shocked, frustrated, and confused, I screamed again and then I found myself sweating on my sofa in Toronto.

What a dream!

Oh Canada, please give an ‘MBA’ a job!