Love doesn’t erase the past

Friday, 5:27 p.m., Victoria Island.

Adaora slipped off her heels before she even reached the elevator. Partners were still buried in contracts and closing calls, but she—a star litigator every other evening—was now a woman on a mission. Their chef had flown to Enugu that morning to see his ailing father; tonight’s egusi soup and pounded yam were hers to conjure. Chidi loved home‑cooked food, and Adaora loved the look on his face when he tasted it.

She cut through traffic like a late‑season harmattan wind—hot, hurried, unpredictable. Near Falomo Bridge, a keke swerved, and Adaora jerked the wheel. Tyres screeched. An electric pole loomed so close she could read the sun‑bleached “IN CASE OF EMERGENCY” sticker.

Chicken.
Eleven years old.
The freezer.
A slap so sharp it rang in her ears long after her mother stomped away.

“You want me to come back from work and start cooking frozen meat?
So I should now defrost chicken with my eyeballs? — Useless child!”

“I’m so sorry, mummy”, she said with tears in her eyes.

They’d had everything—marble floors, private schools, imported cereal—but no softness. Wealth muffled apologies; it did not manufacture them. Her father worked late nights to keep the splendor polished. Her mother worked late, too—then demanded perfection from the tiny girl who stood guard over thawing poultry.

Adaora blinked back to the present. The pole was behind her; the memory wasn’t.


Marriage, she once believed, would be another arena for judgment. Instead, Chidi’s parents opened their arms as though she’d been carved from their own rib.

Gentle smiles, warm hands, you belong here.

Her father‑in‑law ended every phone call—every call—with “I love you.” The first time, Adaora stared at the screen, stunned.
“Does he say that all the time?” she asked.
“Yes,” Chidi chuckled, “and he means it.”

Her mother‑in‑law said less but showed more: laundry folded just so, vegetable soup kept hot on a back burner, questions that lingered until Adaora gave the real answer.
One exhausting week, Mama slipped a teacup into Adaora’s trembling hands.
“You’re doing so well,” she said. “It’s beautiful to watch you be a mother.”

Adaora had wept in the guest bathroom, muffling sobs in a guest towel that smelled of lavender.


A week later, the whole family gathered for Sunday lunch. The house hummed with laughter, the kind Adaora still handled like delicate china.

Her five‑year‑old daughter, Nkem, chased a plastic airplane around the dining table. One bad turn and a tall wine glass toppled—
CRACK!
—splintering across the terrazzo floor.

Adaora’s lungs froze. Muscles coiled. She tasted the metallic fear of thirteen: charred jollof rice, a slippery bowl, her mother’s feet pounding her stomach, while she braced herself in pain on the floor.

“That dish was expensive!”

She opened her mouth—ready to scold, to seize the small wrist the way hers had been seized—

But Mama was faster.

“Are you okay, sweetheart?” The older woman crouched, inspecting tiny feet for cuts. “No blood. Good girl. Let’s wear shoes next time when glass is around.” She kissed Nkem’s forehead, then rose, broom in hand, sweeping calm back into the room.

No anger.
No shouting.
Just love.

Adaora’s shoulders sagged, an armour finally set down. Mama crossed the space between them and clasped her shaking hands.

“It’s just a glass,” she whispered. “Children are more important.”

Tears spilled—silent, grateful, unstoppable.


That evening, Lagos rain pattered against the bedroom window. Adaora lay curled beside Chidi, fingers tracing the steady rhythm of his breath.

“Your parents are teaching me how to be loved,” she murmured. “I didn’t grow up knowing that.”

Chidi pressed a kiss to her forehead, gathering her close. “Now you do.”

Outside, thunder rumbled like distant applause. Inside, two heartbeats settled into the safest silence Adaora had ever known.


Love doesn’t erase the past.
But it can build something stronger in its place.

Always remember that God is love (1 John 4:8).

Covidating: Whiff of Love?

A week later, while on my lunch break at home, I got a message from him. I ignored it. I’ve been feeling lonely, but he’s just not my type. I think. Or do I even have a choice at this point? What if the world ends tomorrow, do I want to be alone? Won’t I rather be alone than be with someone I don’t like when the world ends?

Another week went by.

On one of my lonely afternoons, while working at my little home office station, I got a whiff of the nasty garbage I had piled up in my kitchen over the past few days. So I decided to take it out. I wrapped up the bag and headed out with my hand sanitizer in one hand. As I opened the door I saw a package.

Once I got back and cleansed my hands and the package wrappings, I opened it up and it was a bottle of my favourite wine. I felt my heart melt. No one, not even my parents, has sent me anything during this quarantine. I knew who it was from instantly, so I picked up the phone and called Connor. That’s his name by the way. I apologized for my snobbish attitude, thanked him for the gift, and asked if we could have a fresh start. Our ‘make-up’ was so easy that we ended up having an extremely long all-night conversation. I forgot about the numerous project deadlines I’d been burdened by and just drifted away into a phone-call paradise.

Every day that went by afterwards was so beautiful. I felt closer to him every time we spoke. I would daydream about him (don’t judge me), catch myself smiling randomly during the day just thinking about him, and was constantly looking forward to the next time we spoke.

We had a few more covidates; once at the gas station, while we both topped up our tanks and a few more times at the grocery store. Luckily they had removed the requirement to not speak while shopping. That was ridiculous!

We’ve been fantasizing about what our first post-covid19 date would be like when the city opens back up. I’d like a relaxing day at the beach, maybe with a picnic. He’s more of an adrenaline-lover, so he’d like a 1:1 beach volleyball game. I’m really looking forward to it regardless of what we end up doing. I just really want to have a regular dating experience & of course, feel his body on mine “wink-wink”.

Let’s come back to reality!!!

Today, we had a nice date. We both watched Netflix while Face-timing. Then we chatted about our perceptions and takes on the movie. While I was explaining why I didn’t like how a particular scene turned out, I heard “I love you”, and then “Will you be my girlfriend?”. Those words sent chills down my spine. I’d never heard them so quickly before and to have them come from someone I haven’t had ‘proper’ physical time with was unreal. I struggled to respond as my logic and heart are not in tune.

My heart won though.

I said YES!


Story Continuation: Part 1

Story Continuation: Part 2

Best Friend? (Part 2)

One day, I asked my best friend out to lunch with the goal of having an honest conversation with her. I asked her about my husband’s visit 2 nights before that day. She said she wasn’t home that night. She explained that she had gone out for a team-building event with her co-workers. I asked her what time she got back home and she said she couldn’t remember. “How convenient”, I thought to myself. I stopped trusting her on this day. It was a tough experience. Years of friendship down the drain. I was sad.

A few days later, I came back home at about 2 pm. I was able to leave work early today and wasn’t expecting my husband to be home at the time, but I saw his car in the garage so I knew he was back. I called out for him, but I got no response. I took off my heels then I searched around the house and there was no sign of him. At that point, I knew he could only be at my best friend’s place. I figured this would be a perfect day to figure out what exactly has been going on. I put my phone on silent, wore some comfortable but noiseless shoes, and went over to her house.

As I approached the house I noticed that the garage door was open and there were some tools on the floor but I ignored those and went towards the windows. I looked through the windows and didn’t notice anyone on the main level of the house. So I went back to the garage and went into the house this way. I walked as quietly as possible to ensure that I caught my cheating husband and my best friend in the act. I had my phone ready to record them. I had been through the house a few times so I knew the layout of the home. I started with the basement and no one was there. So I went upstairs and just before I opened up the first bedroom from the stairs, I heard some noises. I followed the noises slowly and I was led to the master bedroom. I double-checked my phone to confirm that it was recording them I barged in.

I was shocked.

I had known my husband was cheating but, I wasn’t expecting this. My best friend was absent. He wasn’t with my best friend.

He was with my best friend’s husband.