Love doesn’t erase the past

Friday, 5:27 p.m., Victoria Island.

Adaora slipped off her heels before she even reached the elevator. Partners were still buried in contracts and closing calls, but she—a star litigator every other evening—was now a woman on a mission. Their chef had flown to Enugu that morning to see his ailing father; tonight’s egusi soup and pounded yam were hers to conjure. Chidi loved home‑cooked food, and Adaora loved the look on his face when he tasted it.

She cut through traffic like a late‑season harmattan wind—hot, hurried, unpredictable. Near Falomo Bridge, a keke swerved, and Adaora jerked the wheel. Tyres screeched. An electric pole loomed so close she could read the sun‑bleached “IN CASE OF EMERGENCY” sticker.

Chicken.
Eleven years old.
The freezer.
A slap so sharp it rang in her ears long after her mother stomped away.

“You want me to come back from work and start cooking frozen meat?
So I should now defrost chicken with my eyeballs? — Useless child!”

“I’m so sorry, mummy”, she said with tears in her eyes.

They’d had everything—marble floors, private schools, imported cereal—but no softness. Wealth muffled apologies; it did not manufacture them. Her father worked late nights to keep the splendor polished. Her mother worked late, too—then demanded perfection from the tiny girl who stood guard over thawing poultry.

Adaora blinked back to the present. The pole was behind her; the memory wasn’t.


Marriage, she once believed, would be another arena for judgment. Instead, Chidi’s parents opened their arms as though she’d been carved from their own rib.

Gentle smiles, warm hands, you belong here.

Her father‑in‑law ended every phone call—every call—with “I love you.” The first time, Adaora stared at the screen, stunned.
“Does he say that all the time?” she asked.
“Yes,” Chidi chuckled, “and he means it.”

Her mother‑in‑law said less but showed more: laundry folded just so, vegetable soup kept hot on a back burner, questions that lingered until Adaora gave the real answer.
One exhausting week, Mama slipped a teacup into Adaora’s trembling hands.
“You’re doing so well,” she said. “It’s beautiful to watch you be a mother.”

Adaora had wept in the guest bathroom, muffling sobs in a guest towel that smelled of lavender.


A week later, the whole family gathered for Sunday lunch. The house hummed with laughter, the kind Adaora still handled like delicate china.

Her five‑year‑old daughter, Nkem, chased a plastic airplane around the dining table. One bad turn and a tall wine glass toppled—
CRACK!
—splintering across the terrazzo floor.

Adaora’s lungs froze. Muscles coiled. She tasted the metallic fear of thirteen: charred jollof rice, a slippery bowl, her mother’s feet pounding her stomach, while she braced herself in pain on the floor.

“That dish was expensive!”

She opened her mouth—ready to scold, to seize the small wrist the way hers had been seized—

But Mama was faster.

“Are you okay, sweetheart?” The older woman crouched, inspecting tiny feet for cuts. “No blood. Good girl. Let’s wear shoes next time when glass is around.” She kissed Nkem’s forehead, then rose, broom in hand, sweeping calm back into the room.

No anger.
No shouting.
Just love.

Adaora’s shoulders sagged, an armour finally set down. Mama crossed the space between them and clasped her shaking hands.

“It’s just a glass,” she whispered. “Children are more important.”

Tears spilled—silent, grateful, unstoppable.


That evening, Lagos rain pattered against the bedroom window. Adaora lay curled beside Chidi, fingers tracing the steady rhythm of his breath.

“Your parents are teaching me how to be loved,” she murmured. “I didn’t grow up knowing that.”

Chidi pressed a kiss to her forehead, gathering her close. “Now you do.”

Outside, thunder rumbled like distant applause. Inside, two heartbeats settled into the safest silence Adaora had ever known.


Love doesn’t erase the past.
But it can build something stronger in its place.

Always remember that God is love (1 John 4:8).

Best Friend? (Part 1)

My name is Anna and this is my story…

About a year ago today, I was extremely excited because my best friend from high school told me that she was moving into my neighbourhood in a few months. We’d been so close since high school and I had always trusted her with my life. We used to do everything together in high school and college but since a few years after college, it’d been tough seeing each other often because she lived about 2 hours away from me at the time. So you can imagine how happy I was to hear that her husband got a job at a company close to my home and they figured this was a good time to live close to us.

5 months later my husband and I drove down to their old home to help them move into our neighbourhood. If I had known that my helping them would start the beginning of a dark phase in my life, I would not have helped at all. The move was pretty smooth. We helped them unpack. But I left earlier than my husband as I had to go make dinner for all of us. When dinner was ready, I went over to my best friend’s new home to invite my husband, her and her husband over to my house for dinner. Dinner was so beautiful. We chatted and laughed all night. Also, everyone had seconds so I was really pleased. After dinner, my husband offered to take all the dishes away and wash them. My best friend decided to join him in the kitchen. I was pleased to get some help with that. When they were done, we said our goodbyes and called it a night.

A few days later, while I was at work, my husband called me and mentioned that he was going over to assist my best friend with some furniture setup and wanted to keep me in the loop. I told him that I appreciated him letting me know and then we ended the call. I got back home about 3 hours later and my husband wasn’t home. So I went over to my best friend’s house and saw her and my husband laughing and drinking through the window. I rang the bell and she came to get the door. She was happy to see me and asked me to join them. It was a Friday anyway so I put on my “TGIF” hat and tried not to think about what I just saw.